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Matt Gross

I've been writing about travel, food, parenting, culture, and whatever else strikes my fancy for a few decades now. Once upon a time, I was the NYT's Frugal Traveler. I live in Brooklyn, obviously.

No one shot JFK

Language

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Nov 19, 2025

No one shot JFK

How irony can help us walk back our conspiratorial thinking.

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Matt Gross
What do the aliens really want from us?

Sci-Fi

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Nov 17, 2025

What do the aliens really want from us?

Our bodies, our brains, our planet, our women? What their fictional desires reveal about our own failings — and whether 'Pluribus' and 'Bugonia' get it right.

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Matt Gross
I will now reveal a secret

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Nov 14, 2025

I will now reveal a secret

You are welcome, even encouraged, to spread it around.

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Matt Gross
The schtickless wonder!

Writing

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Nov 10, 2025

The schtickless wonder!

When a project is about anything and everything, it's also about nothing — and who'd want to read that?

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Matt Gross
Super Fun Pak Mini Essays!

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Nov 6, 2025

Super Fun Pak Mini Essays!

Four short, sharp takes — plus a special appearance by a guest poet.

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Matt Gross
There are things you will never understand

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Nov 3, 2025

There are things you will never understand

But you can still use your stupid brain to try!

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Matt Gross
Notes on a very Trying! year

Writing

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Oct 31, 2025

Notes on a very Trying! year

Hundreds of thousands of words later, what's to become of this newsletter?

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Matt Gross
Cartoons are better than people

Pop Culture

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Oct 29, 2025

Cartoons are better than people

For me, live-action movies and TV will always be secondary.

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Matt Gross
Thomas Pynchon and me

Writing

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Oct 23, 2025

Thomas Pynchon and me

His writing shaped my life, and he's now at a literary and cultural apex. But is the mysterious postmodernist's work still any good?

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Matt Gross
An idle waste of your precious time

Death

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Oct 14, 2025

An idle waste of your precious time

Don't worry, death isn't coming for you quite yet.

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Matt Gross
When the enemy is boring AF

Politics

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Oct 3, 2025

When the enemy is boring AF

Yawning reflections of a radical left Democrat.

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Matt Gross
This is not a travel story

Travel

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Oct 2, 2025

This is not a travel story

I built my career on artful narratives of adventure. But was I lying to my readers — and to myself?

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Matt Gross
I spy with my little eye

The Future

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Sep 19, 2025

I spy with my little eye

Does "When in doubt, cut it out" apply to body parts? Asking for, uh, a friend.

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Matt Gross
I ate a bad sandwich

Food

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Sep 16, 2025

I ate a bad sandwich

And it taught me the meaning of life.

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Matt Gross
Squawk, memory!

Travel

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Sep 12, 2025

Squawk, memory!

My recollection of the past is crisp but scattered. Will a pile of ancient photos make sense of it all?

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Matt Gross
I am still upset about the aurochs

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Sep 5, 2025

I am still upset about the aurochs

The wild ancestor of today's cattle went extinct in 1627. But, uh, like, what if it didn't?

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Matt Gross
I'm driving me crazy!

Travel

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Sep 3, 2025

I'm driving me crazy!

My brain makes it hard to live in the moment, but there's one place I've found I can truly be present: the highway.

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Matt Gross
The word we can't say but need to scream

Language

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Aug 26, 2025

The word we can't say but need to scream

It's vulgar. It's offensive. But it's the only term that truly describes our moment.

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Matt Gross
The best songs called 'Sisyphus,' ranked

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Aug 25, 2025

The best songs called 'Sisyphus,' ranked

The original rock-and-roller has inspired dozens of tunes, but which are worth listening to?

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Matt Gross
These things are all terrible! 🤪

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Aug 14, 2025

These things are all terrible! 🤪

I've been saving up some choice complaints — just for you, dear reader.

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Matt Gross
And another thing!

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Aug 11, 2025

And another thing!

Why it's so impossible to talk about the subjects that matter.

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Matt Gross
A cheese sandwich for the children

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Aug 8, 2025

A cheese sandwich for the children

We're all antisemites now — even you, even me.

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Matt Gross
Leaves of Gross

Writing

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Aug 6, 2025

Leaves of Gross

'I hate poetry,' I used to say, half joking and half serious. But which half was which?

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Matt Gross
How do you catastrophize?

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Aug 5, 2025

How do you catastrophize?

The end is nigh, dude, but is that any reason to freak out?

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Matt Gross
If I had a gun

Violence

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Jul 29, 2025

If I had a gun

A deadly serious thought experiment.

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Matt Gross
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