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No one shot JFK

Language

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Nov 19, 2025

No one shot JFK

How irony can help us walk back our conspiratorial thinking.

What do the aliens really want from us?

Sci-Fi

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Nov 17, 2025

What do the aliens really want from us?

Our bodies, our brains, our planet, our women? What their fictional desires reveal about our own failings — and whether 'Pluribus' and 'Bugonia' get it right.

I will now reveal a secret

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Nov 14, 2025

I will now reveal a secret

You are welcome, even encouraged, to spread it around.

The schtickless wonder!

Writing

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Nov 10, 2025

The schtickless wonder!

When a project is about anything and everything, it's also about nothing — and who'd want to read that?

Squawk, memory!

Travel

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Sep 12, 2025

Squawk, memory!

My recollection of the past is crisp but scattered. Will a pile of ancient photos make sense of it all?

If I had a gun

Violence

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Jul 29, 2025

If I had a gun

A deadly serious thought experiment.

Cartoons are better than people

Pop Culture

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Oct 29, 2025

Cartoons are better than people

For me, live-action movies and TV will always be secondary.

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These are good

I'm driving me crazy!

Travel

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Sep 3, 2025

I'm driving me crazy!

My brain makes it hard to live in the moment, but there's one place I've found I can truly be present: the highway.

Leaves of Gross

Writing

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Aug 6, 2025

Leaves of Gross

'I hate poetry,' I used to say, half joking and half serious. But which half was which?

Why I wear women's clothing

Maculinity

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Jul 14, 2025

Why I wear women's clothing

I'm not a lumberjack, but I'm okay.

Pride is nothing compared with shame

Memory

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Jul 1, 2025

Pride is nothing compared with shame

An argument for the most uncomfortable emotion.

FOOD FOOD FOOD FOOD DOOF FOOD

I ate a bad sandwich

Sep 16, 2025

I ate a bad sandwich

And it taught me the meaning of life.

Memories of Bon Appétit, 2012–2014

Jul 17, 2025

Memories of Bon Appétit, 2012–2014

What I learned (or didn't) at Condé Nast.

The restaurant that made me

Jun 19, 2025

The restaurant that made me

A single visit 25 years ago clarified my approach to food.

You don’t need heirloom tomatoes

May 20, 2025

You don’t need heirloom tomatoes

A Tuesday special: Five mini-essays in one newsletter!

Dry chicken breasts are a myth

Apr 2, 2025

Dry chicken breasts are a myth

Trigger warning: I am about to use the word "spatchcock."

Diners Were the Cradle of American Identity. Not Anymore.

Jan 29, 2025

Diners Were the Cradle of American Identity. Not Anymore.

Once they brought "ethnic" cuisines together on a single menu. Now they're frozen in time. What happened, and can they be revived?

The Recipe for a Great Recipe Is Not a Recipe

Jan 28, 2025

The Recipe for a Great Recipe Is Not a Recipe

For me, learning to cook meant learning to freestyle. Now, when I come face-to-face with precise instructions for a dish, the results aren't always pretty.

I Shoulda Been a Tradwife

Dec 26, 2024

I Shoulda Been a Tradwife

On large-format cooking, and larger-format writing.

I USED TO BE A TRAVEL WRITER, SO HERE ARE SOME TRAVEL STORIES

This is not a travel story

Oct 2, 2025

This is not a travel story

I built my career on artful narratives of adventure. But was I lying to my readers — and to myself?

Squawk, memory!

Sep 12, 2025

Squawk, memory!

My recollection of the past is crisp but scattered. Will a pile of ancient photos make sense of it all?

I'm driving me crazy!

Sep 3, 2025

I'm driving me crazy!

My brain makes it hard to live in the moment, but there's one place I've found I can truly be present: the highway.

Seen one Taj, seen Mahal

Jul 24, 2025

Seen one Taj, seen Mahal

How one terrible book of puns opened my eyes to the potential of language.

Q was the question she asked

May 29, 2025

Q was the question she asked

In the mid-1990s, Phuong Anh Nguyen made Q Bar the most important bar in Vietnam—and possibly the world.

I just can't watch Stanley Tucci go to Italy

May 28, 2025

I just can't watch Stanley Tucci go to Italy

Celebrity travel shows are the worst, even when you love the celebrity. But they don't have to be bad!

What's the best way to explore a city?

Apr 24, 2025

What's the best way to explore a city?

As a travel writer and a New Yorker, I'm supposed to say "on foot." I'm starting to think that's wrong.

How I traveled 20 years ago

Apr 7, 2025

How I traveled 20 years ago

Please enjoy this email I sent to everyone, written on a flight to Hong Kong, back in 2005.

Like 10 million more essays you should check out

There are things you will never understand

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Nov 3, 2025

There are things you will never understand

But you can still use your stupid brain to try!

Notes on a very Trying! year

Writing

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Oct 31, 2025

Notes on a very Trying! year

Hundreds of thousands of words later, what's to become of this newsletter?

Cartoons are better than people

Pop Culture

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Oct 29, 2025

Cartoons are better than people

For me, live-action movies and TV will always be secondary.

Thomas Pynchon and me

Writing

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Oct 23, 2025

Thomas Pynchon and me

His writing shaped my life, and he's now at a literary and cultural apex. But is the mysterious postmodernist's work still any good?

An idle waste of your precious time

Death

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Oct 14, 2025

An idle waste of your precious time

Don't worry, death isn't coming for you quite yet.

When the enemy is boring AF

Politics

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Oct 3, 2025

When the enemy is boring AF

Yawning reflections of a radical left Democrat.

This is not a travel story

Travel

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Oct 2, 2025

This is not a travel story

I built my career on artful narratives of adventure. But was I lying to my readers — and to myself?

I spy with my little eye

The Future

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Sep 19, 2025

I spy with my little eye

Does "When in doubt, cut it out" apply to body parts? Asking for, uh, a friend.

I ate a bad sandwich

Food

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Sep 16, 2025

I ate a bad sandwich

And it taught me the meaning of life.

Squawk, memory!

Travel

+1

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Sep 12, 2025

Squawk, memory!

My recollection of the past is crisp but scattered. Will a pile of ancient photos make sense of it all?

I am still upset about the aurochs

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Sep 5, 2025

I am still upset about the aurochs

The wild ancestor of today's cattle went extinct in 1627. But, uh, like, what if it didn't?

I'm driving me crazy!

Travel

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Sep 3, 2025

I'm driving me crazy!

My brain makes it hard to live in the moment, but there's one place I've found I can truly be present: the highway.

The word we can't say but need to scream

Language

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Aug 26, 2025

The word we can't say but need to scream

It's vulgar. It's offensive. But it's the only term that truly describes our moment.

The best songs called 'Sisyphus,' ranked

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Aug 25, 2025

The best songs called 'Sisyphus,' ranked

The original rock-and-roller has inspired dozens of tunes, but which are worth listening to?

These things are all terrible! 🤪

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Aug 14, 2025

These things are all terrible! 🤪

I've been saving up some choice complaints — just for you, dear reader.

And another thing!

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Aug 11, 2025

And another thing!

Why it's so impossible to talk about the subjects that matter.

A cheese sandwich for the children

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Aug 8, 2025

A cheese sandwich for the children

We're all antisemites now — even you, even me.

Leaves of Gross

Writing

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Aug 6, 2025

Leaves of Gross

'I hate poetry,' I used to say, half joking and half serious. But which half was which?

How do you catastrophize?

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Aug 5, 2025

How do you catastrophize?

The end is nigh, dude, but is that any reason to freak out?

If I had a gun

Violence

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Jul 29, 2025

If I had a gun

A deadly serious thought experiment.

Gimme, gimme, gimme

Death

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Jul 28, 2025

Gimme, gimme, gimme

What do you get for the man who has everything?

Seen one Taj, seen Mahal

Travel

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Jul 24, 2025

Seen one Taj, seen Mahal

How one terrible book of puns opened my eyes to the potential of language.

Memories of Bon Appétit, 2012–2014

Food

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Jul 17, 2025

Memories of Bon Appétit, 2012–2014

What I learned (or didn't) at Condé Nast.

Why I wear women's clothing

Maculinity

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Jul 14, 2025

Why I wear women's clothing

I'm not a lumberjack, but I'm okay.

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