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The most luxurious ingredient of all

Food

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Jan 21, 2026

The most luxurious ingredient of all

It's deceptively humble, but when you want to make it rain, culinarily speaking, there's no better choice.

The president invites you to die

Politics

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Jan 20, 2026

The president invites you to die

The administration clearly wants to kill tens of millions of people. But why?

When enough is enough

Resistance

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Jan 16, 2026

When enough is enough

Allow me to rearrange your deck chairs.

You are not cool

Pop Culture

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Jan 13, 2026

You are not cool

It's okay — I'm not, either. Notes on the death of a once-essential cultural attribute.

Squawk, memory!

Travel

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Sep 12, 2025

Squawk, memory!

My recollection of the past is crisp but scattered. Will a pile of ancient photos make sense of it all?

If I had a gun

Violence

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Jul 29, 2025

If I had a gun

A deadly serious thought experiment.

Cartoons are better than people

Pop Culture

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Oct 29, 2025

Cartoons are better than people

For me, live-action movies and TV will always be secondary.

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I'm driving me crazy!

Travel

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Sep 3, 2025

I'm driving me crazy!

My brain makes it hard to live in the moment, but there's one place I've found I can truly be present: the highway.

Leaves of Gross

Writing

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Aug 6, 2025

Leaves of Gross

'I hate poetry,' I used to say, half joking and half serious. But which half was which?

Why I wear women's clothing

Maculinity

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Jul 14, 2025

Why I wear women's clothing

I'm not a lumberjack, but I'm okay.

Pride is nothing compared with shame

Memory

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Jul 1, 2025

Pride is nothing compared with shame

An argument for the most uncomfortable emotion.

FOOD FOOD FOOD FOOD DOOF FOOD

The most luxurious ingredient of all

Jan 21, 2026

The most luxurious ingredient of all

It's deceptively humble, but when you want to make it rain, culinarily speaking, there's no better choice.

What to eat in 2026

Jan 9, 2026

What to eat in 2026

A foodie's guide to the next 12 months of existential despair.

You deserve better butter

Jan 5, 2026

You deserve better butter

It's an indulgence you should never feel guilty about — as long as it doesn't cost too much.

How many pigs today?

Dec 11, 2025

How many pigs today?

In which I more or less butcher the arguments for eating less (or more?) meat.

When I was a superhero

Nov 25, 2025

When I was a superhero

Why delivering pizza as a teenager was the best job in the world.

I ate a bad sandwich

Sep 16, 2025

I ate a bad sandwich

And it taught me the meaning of life.

Memories of Bon Appétit, 2012–2014

Jul 17, 2025

Memories of Bon Appétit, 2012–2014

What I learned (or didn't) at Condé Nast.

The restaurant that made me

Jun 19, 2025

The restaurant that made me

A single visit 25 years ago clarified my approach to food.

I USED TO BE A TRAVEL WRITER, SO HERE ARE SOME TRAVEL STORIES

This is not a travel story

Oct 2, 2025

This is not a travel story

I built my career on artful narratives of adventure. But was I lying to my readers — and to myself?

Squawk, memory!

Sep 12, 2025

Squawk, memory!

My recollection of the past is crisp but scattered. Will a pile of ancient photos make sense of it all?

I'm driving me crazy!

Sep 3, 2025

I'm driving me crazy!

My brain makes it hard to live in the moment, but there's one place I've found I can truly be present: the highway.

Seen one Taj, seen Mahal

Jul 24, 2025

Seen one Taj, seen Mahal

How one terrible book of puns opened my eyes to the potential of language.

Q was the question she asked

May 29, 2025

Q was the question she asked

In the mid-1990s, Phuong Anh Nguyen made Q Bar the most important bar in Vietnam—and possibly the world.

I just can't watch Stanley Tucci go to Italy

May 28, 2025

I just can't watch Stanley Tucci go to Italy

Celebrity travel shows are the worst, even when you love the celebrity. But they don't have to be bad!

What's the best way to explore a city?

Apr 24, 2025

What's the best way to explore a city?

As a travel writer and a New Yorker, I'm supposed to say "on foot." I'm starting to think that's wrong.

How I traveled 20 years ago

Apr 7, 2025

How I traveled 20 years ago

Please enjoy this email I sent to everyone, written on a flight to Hong Kong, back in 2005.

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You deserve better butter

Food

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Jan 5, 2026

You deserve better butter

It's an indulgence you should never feel guilty about — as long as it doesn't cost too much.

I resolve to shut up

Writing

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Jan 1, 2026

I resolve to shut up

Where's the line between outspoken critic and arrogant loudmouth?

The future isn't what it will one day have been supposed to be

Sci-Fi

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Dec 31, 2025

The future isn't what it will one day have been supposed to be

Why all fiction is science fiction.

Are you a domestic terrorist?

Politics

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Dec 23, 2025

Are you a domestic terrorist?

Am I? Is everyone now?

My population crisis

Parenthood

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Dec 16, 2025

My population crisis

Are there too many people? Too few? Just use your imagination.

How many pigs today?

Food

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Dec 11, 2025

How many pigs today?

In which I more or less butcher the arguments for eating less (or more?) meat.

I'm a weirdo. You got a problem with that?

Language

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Dec 9, 2025

I'm a weirdo. You got a problem with that?

In a world that coopts and capitalizes on quirks, it's ever harder to stand out as truly bizarre.

Everyone is wrong about Generation X

Trends

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Dec 5, 2025

Everyone is wrong about Generation X

Are we beloved slackers or obsolete losers? Cultural saviors or whiny ironists? Whatever: I'm bringing data AND vibes to the never-ending argument.

Do you see what I see?

Memory

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Dec 3, 2025

Do you see what I see?

For decades, I've been trying to observe absolutely everything. And the more I've witnessed, the more I've missed.

When I was a superhero

Food

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Nov 25, 2025

When I was a superhero

Why delivering pizza as a teenager was the best job in the world.

No one shot JFK

Language

+1

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Nov 19, 2025

No one shot JFK

How irony can help us walk back our conspiratorial thinking.

What do the aliens really want from us?

Sci-Fi

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Nov 17, 2025

What do the aliens really want from us?

Our bodies, our brains, our planet, our women? What their fictional desires reveal about our own failings — and whether 'Pluribus' and 'Bugonia' get it right.

I will now reveal a secret

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Nov 14, 2025

I will now reveal a secret

You are welcome, even encouraged, to spread it around.

The schtickless wonder!

Writing

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Nov 10, 2025

The schtickless wonder!

When a project is about anything and everything, it's also about nothing — and who'd want to read that?

Super Fun Pak Mini Essays!

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Nov 6, 2025

Super Fun Pak Mini Essays!

Four short, sharp takes — plus a special appearance by a guest poet.

There are things you will never understand

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Nov 3, 2025

There are things you will never understand

But you can still use your stupid brain to try!

Notes on a very Trying! year

Writing

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Oct 31, 2025

Notes on a very Trying! year

Hundreds of thousands of words later, what's to become of this newsletter?

Cartoons are better than people

Pop Culture

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Oct 29, 2025

Cartoons are better than people

For me, live-action movies and TV will always be secondary.

Thomas Pynchon and me

Writing

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Oct 23, 2025

Thomas Pynchon and me

His writing shaped my life, and he's now at a literary and cultural apex. But is the mysterious postmodernist's work still any good?

An idle waste of your precious time

Death

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Oct 14, 2025

An idle waste of your precious time

Don't worry, death isn't coming for you quite yet.

When the enemy is boring AF

Politics

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Oct 3, 2025

When the enemy is boring AF

Yawning reflections of a radical left Democrat.

This is not a travel story

Travel

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Oct 2, 2025

This is not a travel story

I built my career on artful narratives of adventure. But was I lying to my readers — and to myself?

I spy with my little eye

The Future

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Sep 19, 2025

I spy with my little eye

Does "When in doubt, cut it out" apply to body parts? Asking for, uh, a friend.

I ate a bad sandwich

Food

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Sep 16, 2025

I ate a bad sandwich

And it taught me the meaning of life.

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